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Cait on Culture: A note on inspiration

By Caitlin Abber

Last week I attended an event in Brooklyn hosted by the group Her Girl Friday. The event was titled Throw Like a Girl: Pitching The Hell Out Of Your Stories, and featured a panel of esteemed writers and editors from publications like The New York Times and The Atavist. The event focused on the gender disparity in bylines and published editorial, and how female journalists can work to bridge that gap. It was pretty fascinating stuff, but what I found truly interesting was the hundreds of other women packed into the room with me, grasping for a little bit of advice.

Even though I’ve considered myself a writer for my entire life, I have spent the majority of my twenties trying my hand at other (more lucrative) professional pursuits. Writing full-time has never really been a financial option for me (though I admire those who have the dedication to commit to it), so I have worked as a receptionist, a marketing manager, a PR consultant, and a social media maverick. I did what I thought was the responsible thing to do and got an M.A. in Media Studies and Management, as opposed to an M.F.A. in Creative Writing. I put a dream on hold in order to pay some bills, but I never fully deferred it.

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Cait on Culture: The Beyonce Manifesto

The Beyonce ManifestoBy Caitlin Abber

I was completely unsurprised when I found out Beyonce had been named People Magazine’s 2012 Most Beautiful Person of The Year. As someone who studies pop culture and spends most of her time in front of a computer, I tend choose my favorite icons and idols early on, and Beyonce has always been at the top of the list. She is my most beautiful woman every year! Her poise, her talent, her choices – they are all aspirational in nature, a sort of to-do list for any woman who wants to be at the top of her game and have an awesome Tumblr to show for it.

But its more than that. In all of my years of loving Bey, I have used her music to define and finely tune certain areas of my life. Knowing that her lyrics come from a very real place, and that she truly believes in me as an independent woman, has only strengthened my one-sided bond with the world’s biggest entertainer.

Beyonce is a way of life.

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